Long Distance Marriage

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 Being apart isn’t necessarily a sign that something is wrong — it can also mean that the couple is confident and committed. But that doesn’t make it any easier when you come home after a long, shitty day and your spouse is 7,000 miles and 10 time zones away.

I've been married with my husband almost 6 months, but still not lived together due to some circumstances. Sad right? tipu lah kalau saya cakap tidak sedih.. mana ada pasangan yang sudah bergelar suami isteri akan rasa gembira kalau hidup berjauhan.  Of course I'm so sad but no matter what I have to be strong to face the reality. Dulu masa bercinta pun "PJJ" , dah kahwin pun masih juga pegang tittle "PJJ"..  Rasa macam masih belum kahwin lah pulak. 

Saya selalu "search" tips-tips  tentang perkahwinan jarak jauh di "Google".  Memang banyak.. Mostly I will search quotes. Best bah baca quotes.. bagi kata-kata semangat. 

Here’s What It’s Actually Like To Be In A Long-Distance Marriage;

Living the single life, even when you’re not single.

Menghitung Hari

Hye.... niari 12hb November 2014..hari biasa, hari bekerja.. Tajuk post ni kali adalah "MENGHITUNG HARI" .. Ada 23 hari lagi pigi itu tarikh... Tarikh yang sangat sangat mendebarkan jiwa raga ku... huhu..
dimana pada hari tersebut saya bakal diikat separuh... I means 'Engaged".. Yes, an ENGAGEMENT will be held on 6th December 2014. Pertunangan di antara saya dan dia.. Jejaka pilihan saya sendiri.. Iaitu jejaka berkaca mata dari Negeri jiran, Negeri Kenyalang ------>>> Sarawak. Syukur juga lah selepas 4tahun 3 bulan kami bakal diikat separuh.... which means relationship status at Facebook will change to Engaged with...... hahaha....  Persiapan maybe 70% done... cincin pun belum beli sebab mau beli sama2 dengan bakal tunang.. sebab mau sama corak dengan saiz jari si dia saya tidak tau.. thats why la kena tunggu dia nanti awal bulan 12... Nasib ada siblings yang sanggup tolong saya..kalo tiada nda tau la pa jadi... Harap2 nanti emua berjalan lancar..Amenn....

Because I am Woman..

My body is full of lunoks....But still gorgeous.. haha..mood perasan! Still on going progress to get my ideal weight which is I need to diet and workout. Not an easy task but i believe with a big spirit I will success! yeah, you can do it! :) btw, I'm bit jealous with the girl@woman with small body eventhough she eat so much food but still not gain their weight.  But, one of my friends (I mean boy..) he said that the woman with chubby body is gorgeous compared to the thin one.. But it depends on respectively men opinion. 

Bah, sampai di sini saja saya post saya untuk kali ini.. :) 

The Importance of Having The Right People in your Life

Disappointed? Yes. I feel very disappointed. Without the solid reason and explaination, someone just simply said he's no feeling anymore with me. Just that simple he lost his feeling. hm.. I'm still can accept the fact but right now I'm slowly learn how to forget my feeling towards him. Hopefully I can. Even there so many things I've done with him, so much memories throughout the relationship. I know God has a better plan for me. Maybe a guy who loves me more than him.

On the flip side though, we have all met the type of person who literally drains us of our energy. The type who is always finding (or creating) something to complain about. These people serve as a virus to our happiness and can easily destroy it, if we let them.


The wrong people will make you question what you, yourself, are capable of. It’s important to realize the weight they can put on your shoulders, and that these feelings are not coming from within.

The right people will be standing next to you not only on the sunny days, but also on the rainy days. In fact, they’ll be the ones holding the umbrella over you.

It’s not just about finding the right people to be around – it’s also about BEING the right person to be around.

My ability to create the most positive, powerful legacy possible, will have much to do with the people I chose to surround myself with on a daily basis. I will Choose wisely in the future.